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Intimate Enemy, The

Intimate Enemy, The Paperback - 1970

by Bach, George R., Dr. and Wyden, Peter

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New York: Avon Books A division of The Hearst Corporation, 1970. Light Creasing on Front, Rear Covers, Spine; Front, Rear Covers, Spine Lightly Chipped; Light Sticker Pull to Front Cover; Light Spine Roll; Moderate Yellowing Due to Age. THE SMASH BESTSELLER THAT TELLS YOU How to fight fair in love and marriage. SUB-TITLE: How to fight fair in love and marriage. BOOK NUMBER: W186. ALSO KNOWN AS: Excerpts from this book have appeared in the Ladies' Home Journal under the title, Marital Fighting. CONTENTS: 1. Why Intimates Must Fight 2. Fighting For (and Against) Intimacy 3. Training Lovers to be Fighters 4. Getting a Good Fight Started 5. When and Where to Fight 6. How to Fight a Fair Fight 7. Male and Female Fight Styles 8. Ending a Good Fight 9. Bad Fighters and How to Reform Them 10. When Words Fail: Fighting with Fists and Fingernails 11. The Language of Love: Communications Fights 12. Fighting By Mail and Telephone 13. Dirty and Sick Fighters and How to Stop Them 14. How to Score Intimate Fights 15. Fighting Over "Trivia" 16. The Dream: Courtship Fights 17. Fighting for Realistic Romance 18. Sex as a Fighting Word 19. Fighting Before, During, and After Sex 20. Marital Fights About Extramarital Sex 21. Fight With (and About) Children 22. When Kids Fight Back 23. Family Fights 24. Exit Fights 25. Manifesto for Intimate Living; Technical Appendix; The Impact Theory of Aggression; Bibliography; Index. SYNOPSIS: The most important book of the year . . . maybe the most important in your life! EXCERPT: About the Collaboration that Produced this Book - Dr. George R. Bach, the senior author of The Intimate Enemy, received his Ph.D. degree in psychology from the University of Iowa. He has taught there and at four other universities. His authoritative textbook, Intensive Group Psychotherapy, is widely used. Dr. Bach is the founder and director of the Institute of Group Psychotherapy in Beverly Hills, California. There, working with his private clients and a small group of scientists, he developed the theory of "constructive aggression" on which the present book is based. Dr. Bach is an editor of three scientific journals; past president of the west coast chapter, American Academy of Psychotherapists; and past president of the Group Therapy Association of Southern California. Peter Wyden, Dr. Bach's collaborator, is executive editor of the Ladies' Home Journal and has written extensively on contemporary problems. His previous books are Suburbia's Coddled Kids, The Hired Killers (Introduction by Karl Menninger, M.D.), The Overweight Society, How the Doctors Diet, and Growing Up Straight: What Every Thoughtful Parent Should Know About Homosexuality. To prepare himself for the present volume, Mr. Wyden participated intensively in Dr. Bach's work. However, in fairness to the doctor and his staff, Mr. Wyden would like to make clear that the first-person plural, as used throughout this book, refers principally to them. The substance and most details of the case histories presented in these pages are authentic. But the material has been greatly condensed to save the reader's time; and names and incidents as well as other details, have been disguised with utmost care so that the privacy of clients remains more than adequately protected. AWARDS: Selected by the Book-of-the-Month Club.. First Thus 1st Printing. Mass Market Paperback. Very Good. 12mo - over 6¾" - 7¾" tall.
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