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Why Does He Do That? : Inside the Minds of Abusive and Controlling Men
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Why Does He Do That? : Inside the Minds of Abusive and Controlling Men Hardcover - 2002

by Bancroft, Lundy

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In this groundbreaking book, domestic violence expert Lundy Bancroft uses his unique perspective as a therapist for abusive and controlling men to help women, their children, and other family members who have been touched by abuse understand why abusers behave the way they do and what can be done about it. Bancroft teaches women how to survive and improve an abusive relationship; how to determine how dangerous an abuser is and when it is impossible to rectify a situation; and how to get out of a relationship safely.

Bancroft identifies nine types of abusive men, addressing different styles, from the physical batterer to the strictly verbal abuser. He dispels the pervasive societal myths surrounding abuse, exposing common excuses used by abusers, such as having experienced an abusive childhood or substance addiction. Bancroft answers commonly asked questions, such as what warning signs of abuse to look for early in a relationship; what is and isn't abusive behavior; how to know if a woman and her children are in danger; and how to tell when a man is really changing.

Why Does He Do That? gets to the heart of abusive men's thoughts and behaviors, making it a vital resource for victims of domestic violence, their families, and professionals. This empowering book gives women the tools they need to get back in control of their own lives.

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  • Title Why Does He Do That? : Inside the Minds of Abusive and Controlling Men
  • Author Bancroft, Lundy
  • Binding Hardcover
  • Condition Used - Very Good
  • Pages 408
  • Volumes 1
  • Language ENG
  • Publisher Penguin Publishing Group, E Rutherford, New Jersey, U.S.A.
  • Date September 26, 2002
  • Bookseller's Inventory # 5293927-6
  • ISBN 9780399148446 / 0399148442
  • Weight 1.59 lbs (0.72 kg)
  • Dimensions 9.42 x 6.12 x 1.42 in (23.93 x 15.54 x 3.61 cm)
  • Ages 18 to UP years
  • Grade levels 13 - UP
  • Library of Congress subjects Wife abuse - United States, Family violence - United States
  • Library of Congress Catalog Number 2001048850
  • Dewey Decimal Code 362.829

Summary

"He doesn't mean to hurt me-he just loses control.""He can be sweet and gentle.""He's scared me a few times, but he never hurts the children-he's a great father.""He's had a really hard life..."Women in abusive relationships tell themselves these things every day. Now they can see inside the minds of angry and controlling men-and change their own lives. In this groundbreaking book, a counselor shows how to improve, survive, or leave an abusive relationship, with:€ The early warning signs€ Nine abusive personality types€ How to tell if an abuser can change, is changing, or ever will€ The role of drugs and alcohol€ What can be fixed, and what can't€ How to leave a relationship safely

First line

LISTEN TO THE VOICES OF THESE WOMEN: He's two different people.

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