Courting Equality: A Documentary History of America's First Legal Same-Sex Marriages Hardcover - 2007

Media reviews

Courting Equality is a very important book on several levels. First, it chronicles the events that led up to same sex marriage in Massachusetts, an historic event in our country’s move toward making the wonderful principles of the Constitution applicable to all of our citizens. Second, it shows how political support in the elected Legislature grew rapidly as the reality of allowing same sex couples to love each other demolished the prejudices that prevented same-sex marriage previously. Finally, it reinforces the point—which was no surprise to those of us fighting for equal treatment for all people—that same sex marriage has been an entirely positive thing for thousands of men and women in Massachusetts, and has had zero negative consequences at all. Too often, political literature focuses on the bad news, Courting Equality tells some very good news very well.—Congressman Barney Frank

"Courting Equality offers timely and vivid testimony to the power of commitment and bears witness to the determination, the love, and, ultimately, the jubilation of thousands of ordinary people who believed in an extraordinary dream." —Rev. William G. Sinkford, President of the Unitarian Universalist Association of Congregations

"In Courting Equality, Marilyn Humphries’ stunning photos show what the struggle for equality looks like and what it feels like. She, Patricia Gozemba, and Karen Kahn have documented an important piece of American 's ongoing efforts to end discrimination against gay people and same-sex couples. This book shows how some of our own legislators and fellow citizens got to gay people and our families, and our collective journey to embracing fairness. Courting Equality will help others make that journey."—Mary L. Bonauto, Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders, Lead counsel, Goodridge v. Department of Public Health

"Courting Equality is a remarkable chronicle of exactly how social change happens. Marilyn Humpries’ vivid photographic documentation of the fight for same-sex marriage hardly needs any elaboration, but Kahn and Gozemba’s accompanying legal history is riveting. Words and pictures together create a moving, human portrait of representative democracy at work."—Alison Bechdel, author of Fun Home and Dykes to Watch Out For